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 "Atomic Habits" by James Clear offers practical strategies for building good habits and breaking bad ones. Here are some key points: 1. The 1% Rule: Focus on making small, incremental improvements each day. Tiny changes can lead to significant results over time. 2. Habit Stacking: Link a new habit to an existing one. For example, if you want to start flossing, do it right after brushing your teeth. 3. The Four Laws of Behavior Change:    - Make It Obvious: Design your environment to make the cues for good habits more visible.    - Make It Attractive: Pair habits with rewards or make them enjoyable.    - Make It Easy: Simplify habits to reduce friction and remove obstacles.    - Make It Satisfying: Use immediate rewards to reinforce positive behavior. 4. Identity-Based Habits: Focus on the type of person you want to become rather than just the outcome. Build habits that align with your desired identity. 5. Habit Tracking: Use a habit tracker ...

 We've forgotten to relate things and to understand the connections. I've heard some people saying experiences make you mature, while other say it is the age that makes you mature. Who's right and who's wrong? Can both the statements be true? For me, yes both can be true. Things can be interconnected. Situations in life comes by the will of Allah, according to the personality, instincts and surroundings of a person.So, the life you experience does teach you lessons in a very personalised manner.  But age provides you with the comprehension skills. With age you gain more knowledge which in result increase your comprehension. When we were kids, we experienced a lot of things but didn't understand any. With age, you start evaluating and analysing things. And that is why a lot of things we understand way after we experience it. Moreover, You experience what? you experience your life and your life is measured by your age. The more you age the more you experience the life...

 Isolation doesn't help. We need to understand that loneliness is a disease. Don't cutoff people thinking it will cure you. Do not promote the concept of being anti-social. There is no way one can live a life all alone. We need each other's company.  Yes, people do hurt. A lot of times their unkind behaviour tear you apart but always remember you are no Angel. You do the same, sometimes or the other. All we need to do is to never give up on ourselves. Let everyday be a new day to become a better muslim, a better person.  Apologize, forgive and move on with a clean heart. May Allah fill our hearts with sincerity and love. @muslimavh

 Don't leave or quit anything you started thinking that it will take time, because time has to pass whether you do something or not, but isn't it good that you achieve something as time goes by? If you'll start working today, only then will you get rewarded tomorrow. Or else time has to & will pass, but nothing will be achieved or gained. & then once again you'll be thinking of starting over but the thought that it may not be achieved in a certain time frame will stop you from taking your steps forward. It is very necessary for us to stop limiting ourselves & start working. Let's get out of this vicious cycle! @muslimavh

 Ye Kalimah hamari pehchan hai. Mgr ham isi kalimah k sath gaddari karte hain, Jab kabhi ham kisi hasti ko Allah ki mohabbat ya Allah ki tazeem ya Allah k ikhtiyar ke ba muqabala khada kr dete hain. Kya ham Allah k bande nahi, kya ham musalman nahi, phir aakhir kyu hame kisi aur hasti ki yad aaye jab ham kisi mushkil mai hon, Kyu ham kisi zariye ko talash kare. Kya iski waja ye to nahi ki hame lgta h ki ham is qabil nahi ki Allah se direct dua karen, agr aisa hai to ham Allah ki ibadat kese direct krte hain? Kya ibadat k liye bhi koi zariya talash kiya ja sakta hai? Nahi na! Agr khud mai kami mehsoos hoti hai to chahiye ki apni islah ki jaye. Mgr Allah to ghair muslims ki bhi sunta hai na, chahe wo Allah ki hasti ko mane ya na mane, chahe wo kisi aur ko khuda bana len phir bhi Allah unki bhi zaruriyat pura karta hai. To phir ham musalmano ki dua kyu nahi sunega? Kabhi Allah se rabta bana kr to dekhen, ham kyu koi zariya talash kare jabki Allah ne Qur'an mai farmaya hai ki 'Mujh...

Let's Prepare For Ramadan  1.   Deep Cleaning  Clean your wardrobe, book shelves, kitchen cupboards etc, and remove all that is unnecessary. 2. Grocery Shopping  Buy and store all the required groceries for Ramadan, so you don't have to go out every second day. 3. Plan Your Routine  Make your personalised schedule and gradually start incorporating it in your daily routine.  4. Cut Off The Junk Start by minimizing your Junk consumption and eventually cut it off. 5. Eid Shopping  Shop your personal stuff, home decors and gifts etc before Ramadan. Some BONUS Tips 1. Help the needy people around you, so that they can also prepare for Ramadan and Eid. 2. Consult your doctor, if required take multivitamins, supplements etc. 3. Arrange Islamic activities for kids.  (Charity box, Islamic quizzes, Prophet stories etc) @muslimavh